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Why I started writing this blog?

Ever since childhood I have been told by my parents and grandparents that whatever you do in life, just make sure that you never hurt someone or never succeed at the cost of others happiness. This thought has been the basis of my entire life. At the very core I have always tried to be a good man, someone who can be looked upon, someone who is a problem solver and not creator in others lives. 

Then came a phase in my life when I started questioning everything around me, every person who was a part of my life seemed like a negative influence, every talk that I got involved in only led me down the path of spiraling negativity and I lost control of my own thoughts.

It was the time when I had the deepest realizations, most of them eventually never made sense after a while but some of them had a life changing impact on my thought process and personality. I realized how people can be perceived just opposite of what they stand for, how our mind plays trick and fills the gap with negative thoughts, and most importantly, I realized that no one in this world is a bad person after all.

Everyone is dealing with their own struggles, they have their own set of guiding principles in life and at times they may not align with a generally perceived notion of being good, but no one ever wants to do bad things intentionally.

Try to remember one person in your life, who said that he/she intentionally wants to harm anyone or wishes for something to go bad in someone's life, I bet you would struggle to find such a person. That is because everyone wants happiness and support, everyone wants love and friendship, no one wants to spread negativity in the world. It is just that at times people loose track of their own intentions, they themselves struggle to understand what they want and why they want and often are perceived as anti-social elements in the community.

I started writing this blog because I wanted to talk about the struggles of people who face such hardship in life, I wanted to talk about the mental health concerns, I wanted to talk about the aspects of life which go unnoticed, I wanted to talk about the good part of our existence and maybe if possible help other see the same. If I could touch one soul with my writing and help him/her come out of the miseries, the purpose of my writing will be fulfilled.

This blog is the anecdote of my learnings, my fears, my failures and my perspective of the world that surrounds me, and I will always try my level best to always present a positive perspective through my writings.

P.S. - I would always be grateful to my elder brothers - Vinay Tiwari (My integral support system) and (Dheerendra Bhaiya (DRDO scientist and now also an Art of Living Teacher) for helping me see the good in everything and everyone, despite the struggles and hardships of life.

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